This is actually such … what can I say, advice from a young person?

Somebody who loves you, requires you to always be your best.

No.

Another person isn’t in a position to even determine such a thing.

If love is the path, then acceptance is the trailhead.

Real love is unconditional and has nothing to do with sex, romance and “being our best”.

It is not interpersonal. It is transpersonal.

Just wait. You’ll see.